| A Birthday Message. | | | | that we are moving forward because we feel it from |
| Every year all of us celebrate or loath the day our | | | | within. When you feel the change from within you, |
| Earthly mother gave us birth. She brought us into the | | | | nothing from the outside can affect it. You will not give |
| world through pain and joy. We have experienced this | | | | in or give up too easily. You will succeed far more than |
| pain and joy everyday since that day. Much of it we | | | | you fail. |
| do not remember. Some of it we will never forget no | | | | The power to be who and what you want to be lies |
| matter how much we want to or try to. | | | | within each and every one of us. The trouble is most |
| Pain and Joy. Joy and Pain. We are only human so we | | | | of us don't know how to continuously tap into that |
| must have both in order to exist. However, many of us | | | | power. We don't know how to keep that vision with |
| wish we had a lot more joy and a lot less pain. It | | | | us. Well, to tell you the truth, there is no deep dark |
| seems that everyday we have to deal with something | | | | secret to doing this. |
| in our lives that we would rather not have to deal with. | | | | Yes, there are lots of books, programs, coaches, etc |
| We ask ourselves why we can't have more joy in our | | | | out there that would like you to believe that they have |
| lives. | | | | the "secret" to giving you happiness. The problem is |
| Birthdays are the one day besides New Years' Eve | | | | true happiness is not external. Nobody can give it to |
| that we reflect on the past year of our life. We ask | | | | you. True happiness comes from deep with you. |
| have we done what we wanted to do. We ask have | | | | There is a secret on how to get what you want but |
| we had as much joy as we wanted. We ask is this all | | | | each of us already knows what the secret is. What |
| there is to life. We ask what is my purpose in life and | | | | we often need is someone who understands our |
| we ask why does it seem like the years go by so fast | | | | desires and truly wants to help us get what we want. |
| and you accomplish so little. | | | | Humans are social creatures and most of what we |
| It really boils down to us not feeling that we are doing | | | | are is due to our interaction with others. We need |
| what we truly believe we are put on this planet to do. | | | | others to help us achieve our goals because they |
| We feel as if we are not able to do what we really | | | | often can see things we overlook or ignore or just |
| enjoy. We feel trapped by the job, the family, the very | | | | don't see at all. We need someone who truly cares |
| life we have chosen to live. Yes, no matter how | | | | about us. Often that person becomes a mentor. Often |
| miserable you may think you are, you chose to be that | | | | that mentor is someone we hire such as a life coach |
| way. | | | | or therapist of some kind. |
| So is it any wonder that every birthday and December | | | | A life or health coach knows what it takes to tap into |
| 31 we make all kinds of promises to ourselves to | | | | the power that is within each of us. They keep us on |
| change our life. Indeed, is it any wonder that many of | | | | track when we deviate from our goal. A coach gives |
| those wishes or resolutions are ones that are aimed at | | | | us ideas and helps us practice what we want to |
| directly changing us on the outside in some way? But | | | | preach. Every successful athlete, actor, musical artist, |
| the problem is most wishes or resolutions are broken | | | | business executive, etc has a coach or mentor that |
| within the first 30 days they are made. | | | | helps them achieve what they want to achieve. |
| The reason is those resolutions do not take into | | | | You have to ask yourself on your next birthday or |
| account what we really want. Those resolutions do | | | | December 31, "if I did not accomplish or get what I |
| not even attempt to change what is inside of each of | | | | wanted in the past year then what can I do differently |
| us. When you make a wish that is contrary to your | | | | this year to finally accomplish my goals and who can |
| core being, you will ultimately not reach the goal of that | | | | help me get there?" If most successful people have a |
| wish. | | | | coach and/or mentor what makes you think you can |
| For example, many of us make a resolution to lose | | | | go it alone? Have you been a total success without a |
| weight. But very few of us make a resolution to bring | | | | coach or mentor up to this point. Chances are if you |
| out the thin and healthy person on the inside. All we do | | | | are reading this short article, you have not. |
| is try and attack our exterior. We want to drop some | | | | You should look into getting a personal professional life |
| pounds and watch our outside shrink. The problem is | | | | or health coach or mentor today. Why sit around on |
| we try fad diet after fad diet and realize that the pain | | | | your next birthday or next New Years' Eve party |
| of those diets isn't working fast enough so we see | | | | wondering where the year went and why you have |
| that the person in the mirror is not changing and so we | | | | not gotten what you believe you want? Life is too |
| give up. | | | | short not to have what you really want. So start today |
| However, if we first saw how we are and want to be | | | | to get what you want. Look into a life or health coach |
| on the inside, then we would not fall for fad diets and | | | | or mentor today. Tomorrow you could be truly happy |
| we would not give up so easily when progress seems | | | | from the inside out. |
| too slow to notice progress is happening. We know | | | | |