Don't Settle

Settling is about not embracing what is best for you,stop settling. You have to stop settling for a job that
and accepting what you really don't want. When youisn't challenging, a life that isn't fulfilling, and relationships
settle, you accept less than you deserve. Settlingthat are uninspiring. Life is way too short to settle.
becomes a habit and a way of life, but it doesn't haveHow do you break the cycle of settling? Start small,
to be. According to Maureen Dowd, "The minute youstart slow and start now! Begin with the small
settle for less than you deserve, you get even lessdecisions you make and work your way up. Settling
than you settled for!"has become a habit and a way of life; so don't expect
People settle every day in every way. They settle forto change the habit immediately. Begin by having only
unsatisfying jobs, boring lives, and stale relationships.the objects in your life that you love. Don't buy things
People settle in part because they don't realize theyjust because they are on sale. Purchase only items
can have better, or even that they deserve better.that you love for your home and for yourself. I
People also settle because of fear. Fear holds us backchanged washing detergents because I thought I found
from embracing what we really want. According to Boa better deal, but when my clothes became dingy, I
Bennett, "Every day, people settle for less than theyknew I had settled for a cheaper brand, not a better
deserve. They are only partially living, or at best living adeal. I immediately switched back to my favorite.
partial life. Every human being has the potential forThose are the kinds of things you want to begin with.
greatness."Notice where you settle for less, and where your life is
The only way to truly embrace your greatness is tolooking dingy.