Getting to Know a Deaf Person Can Be Extremely Rewarding and Fun

I come to discover that deaf people have their ownknow the deaf community, they could willingly remove
culture, which should be allowed to prosper with allthis blockage. Deaf people can be fun, distance or too
human being.possessive and demanding, when they fear of not
I honestly feel that we, who are from the hearinghaving an equal rights as a hearing person is facing
world, should attempt to treat deaf people as an equalthem.. Although they identity themselves as highly
society, and for them to respect us from the hearingvalued; deaf people seem to have a little difficulty to
world for not judging them, or to suspect that ouragree that a hearing person can never fully obtain that
motives is simply from being sorry for them, becauseidentity and become a qualified member of the deaf
they have the same feeling as we all do, If it iscommunity without any challenges.
emotional or physical. Although I believe we all need toSpeech and thoughts like a hearing person are
take some motivational training and life coaching, sopessimistically valued in deaf culture. Most members of
we all can be in an equal harmoniums relationship withAmerican deaf community are simply baffled when
one to another. Like all human beings, even deaftold they are disabled. The audit establishment started
people have tantrum, anger and emotional issues thatbeing called Hearing-Impaired instead of deaf. Had the
can lead to written abuse / like people from thedeaf community been asked about this they would
speaking worked, who use verbal abuse and anhave learned that "deaf" is not negatively valued -
physical abuse, those behaviors have nothing to do"hearing-impaired" is. "Deaf refers to shared culture,
with being deaf, it has allot to do with ones growing up,language, and experience; "hearing-impaired" seems to
witnessing and learning from home or the society andrefer to a physical defect that someone outside deaf
all environment subliminal messages...culture possesses.
I never grow up around deaf people, only lately that IDeaf people easily throw temper tantrums because
come to work in my hypnotherapy practice with verythey could not understand what was being said to
intelligent deaf people and also have the privilege ofthem by their hearing parents or partners, and both
socializing with some of them... The point I am makingworld need to learn to communicate if they chose to
is, that our society tend to separate the deaf from theshare life together.
hearing, and it is not by all mean to hurt them, but it isOn a more historical perspective, the audists have
from lack of knowledge and understanding the otherdevised a five-stage program that has continually
world... The bottom line is that I have come to realizeforced deaf children to assimilate into a hearing world.
that deaf people is a circumstance and it is not aFirst Stage: is Oralism-this was the late 19th century
handicap and any effort to cure that circumstances isban of signed languages and deaf teachers from
like trying to fix something that is not broken, and is aresidential schools.
fact, that is why there is no reason to feel sorry forSecond Stage: was called day schools, which were
them or treat them differently, they are no differentestablished on a large-scale basis. They were
from us.established so that children could live at home in a
The deaf community believes that it is a linguisticmajority language environment.
majority, not disabled. I come to discover thatThird Stage: the dominance of the majority language is
deafness is a tragic medical condition, not a choice wereinforced (in this case English). This stage is often
have as a human being. It is like with religion, peoplecalled total communication, where a teacher would use
tend to separate individual because what religion theyall forms odd communication available so that they
were born into, did any one asked the newborn whatmay communicate with their deaf pupils.
religion they want to be born into? Did any one askedFourth Stage: is known as mainstreaming. In this model
for their agreement, or approval? NO, They had nothe deaf students are scattered among the districts
say, they just born into it. Deaf people are visuallocal schools for hearing children.
people; they also have their own visual language, socialFifth: final model is the medical model, surgery.
organization, history, and background, which can beThe FDA has approved the cochlear Prosthesis. They
challenging to a regular person if they are not familiarhave been authorized to conduct surgery on children.
with it....Reports have shown that children who receive the
That is why I believe they should be involved... It is thecochlear implants are no better at hearing or speaking
best healthiest thing to do, to create a happy life styleas the adolescent who uses a hearing aid or becomes
for all human being, regardless to religion, race ordeaf later in life.
gender eca. Deaf children and adult faces manyFor the most part, deaf people are no longer
obstacles in life, but the lack of communication atconsidered defective, It is no longer excepted in our
home, inferior education in school, discrimination inhearing world as a bad thing for being deaf, deafness
relationship, employment, are obstacles placed in theiris more and more excepted in our society.
way by hearing people who, if only they came to