| "Sometimes I can really hate myself. I'm showing off | | | | was not that important. |
| again." | | | | I know for myself that I can appear arrogant to others. |
| Sounds familiar? It does to me. And I know that being | | | | But what I want others to do is to listen to what I'm |
| a good consultant the only thing you basically need to | | | | telling. And the more I talk, the less important does it |
| do is to listen. | | | | seem all together. And that is when I can start listening. |
| How can you be a good listener? | | | | If you have experienced this, you also know that you |
| Your ego is your life-time-partner. A shadow that is | | | | should listen to others. Everybody has an interesting |
| hanging over you and you cannot punish. You have to | | | | story to tell, but they give up in the moment. There are |
| live with him (or her). | | | | so many of us that shout and want attention. |
| What you could do is start writing. Either publicly, like | | | | I think that what ever market is inefficient. And so is |
| here at EzineArticles or private, keeping a dairy or | | | | the market of communications. Those who talk all the |
| something else. | | | | time, should listen more and those who are afraid to |
| All that you have written, you do not have to tell | | | | communicate their ideas are undervalued for the |
| anymore. You have said it once and that should be | | | | wrong reasons. Stand up for yourself. |
| enough. If people like it they can rate your article, if | | | | I will continue to write. But only to make time to listen. |
| they do not bother, they won't. So your knowledge | | | | |