The Myth of One's "Calling" in Life - How to Know What You Really Showed Up to Do

Our culture has confused people, and continues to dowere more divine than others but that they lived at a
so, in this regard. For example, what young personlevel of God-realization few people have ever
does not grow up expecting that there is somethingexperienced, either before or after them. And yet, all
special they are here to do and that their greatest lifeof these enlightened souls invite their followers to live
challenge, or test, is to figure out what that "something"as they lived. So, why would they invite people live as
is and pursue it? In most instances, this culturalthey lived if it was not possible do so? That is
conditioning only serves only to set up the youngprecisely the point. They would not. It is potentially
person for what will likely be a life of confusion andpossible to be enlightened or awakened just as they
disappointment.were. In other words, since they lived so remarkably in
It is this kind of erroneous conditioning that leadstouch with self and Source, so may we.
virtually everyone to spend an inordinate amount ofThis writer grew up being taught by well-meaning, but
time looking for the "right" job, or career, or calling.misguided parents and other Christian people, that
While most people will eventually choose a career thatthere was a "calling" I was to both discern and then
rewards them with some measure of satisfaction, thepursue in life and, if I did, I would discover a happy,
fact is, no one ever finds a job or a calling that meetsfulfilling life. But, in the end, what they promised turned
their deepest longing for fulfillment, joy, and happiness.out to be a disappointment to me, just as it must be
Why? It is because your deepest desires forfor virtually everyone else. There is no special vocation
happiness could only ever be the consequence ofyou're supposed to find and pursue, as in a career or
something altogether different.calling. Instead, your real vocation is simply to know
So, what is that "something that is altogetherGod. When you do, there is joy unspeakable and there
different?" What will reward me with the deepestis inexplicable satisfaction.
satisfaction, happiness, fulfillment, and joy in life?The philosopher Teilhard de Chardin once said that we
The one overriding spiritual truth to remember is thatare spiritual beings having a temporary human
your primary purpose in life is to both know and toexperience. If this is true, when you reconnect with
enjoy intimacy with the Creator, no matter how youyour spiritual self (or, Source), you make the
may understand or conceptualize Transendence. "Allremarkable discovery that what you do professionally
religions," said the Hindu yogi, Parmahansa Yogananda,is secondary to who you are. Your real identity could
"serve the purpose of reuniting the soul with God."never be what you do but only ever who you are.
Saint Augustine shared something of the sameAnd, therein lies the difference. Whether you wash
essential truth: "Our hearts are restless until they findwindows, drive a cab, work on a farmer, serve tables
rest in God." What most religious people forget, andin a restaurant, or act as the President and CEO of a
our culture does not know and so fails to teach, is thatFortune 500 company, none of this, in the final analysis,
there could only ever be one real purpose to humanis either that important or that significant. They are all
existence--one real meaning for your presence onjust roles you fill--roles that are transitory in nature--and
planet earth--and that is to "know thyself," as Socratesnone of them, no matter how our culture may regard
put it. Further, when you know yourself, you've metthem, could ever give you what you either want or
your Source. Meister Eckhart put it like this: "The eyeneed in life, except in some relative, temporary sense.
through which I see God is the same eye throughSo then, your real purpose is to walk with God. And,
which God sees me."because this is so, then the second part of that
How is this so? Since you were created in the imagoquestion becomes all the more significant. Since our
dei, the image of God, you are part of God. Thatpurpose is to walk with God, "Why would anyone walk
means, the Source out of which you emerge is thealone?"
same Source to which you will return. What madeWell, the fact is, no one chooses to walk alone, yet
Jesus, and other spiritual avatars like him somost people do. They do so precisely because they
unusual--people like the Buddha, Muhammad, Enoch,don't know how to walk with God.
Mary, the mother of Jesus, and so on, is not that they