Which Voice Do You Feed?

As a woman entrepreneur, my vision is for workof self-doubt and fear. Having been successful in
environments that support and sustain life; that invitesenior management positions, and traveling to
health, humor, compassion and truth. We succeedMicrosoft's Headquarters in Seattle Washington to
without having to sacrifice our integrity or anyonesuccessfully lobby them to influence the computer
else's. We take part in creating something greater thanindustry in changing oppressive language, I was
ourselves; be part of something where the whole isprepared for the external doubters. I was less
more than the sum of its parts; a place where magicprepared for the internal dialogue of doubt.
and miracles are a part of life. We are able to growThis is the time when an entrepreneur needs the kind
and expand; to stretch; and finally, to spread our wingsof support best achieved through mentorship. This is
and fly. Our experience of flight stands as a model ofthe time when we need to be reminded that simply
what's possible and a testimony to our courage toputting one foot in front of the other is the important
take the risks that will bring joy, vitality and delight backthing. This is when the red tape and information can be
into the realm of day-to-day living.overwhelming. This is when we don't even know what
Entrepreneurs as my coaching clients, tell me theywe don't even know - so how can we ask questions?
want to be able to breathe deeply; to relax and toI often hear this called the information age - I disagree,
laugh; to create and bring new ideas and approachesas I cannot relate to all the information available. I
and opportunities into the light of day. We want to beparticipate in global networks and international work
able to have work be part of our complete lifeand constantly reach out to mentors. There are times
process and have room for our families and friends,when I need someone to point me in the right direction.
without the fear of being marginalized or madeDon't give me the map when I need someone to take
irrelevant.me by the hand and lead me. This is also where a
As we know, things are changing rapidly today, withcoach can assist.
the advances of science. As we move away from aHome-based business operators often spend large
traditional perspective and venture into a quantumchunks of time alone. Although telephone contact may
biological world-view, the lay of the land begins tobe frequent, sometimes two or three days can go by
move and sway, leaving us with a sensation not unlikewithout seeing another life form that has fewer than
an earthquake. Likewise, moving from traditionalfour legs. The end result can be a sense of
employment to entrepreneurship causes those verydisconnection from the world. However, this sense of
things that we have for so long considered to be solid,disconnection is minor compared to the sense of
to be real, and to be the structures of our reality, todisconnection that I sometimes feel from myself: from
begin to fade into movement and sway.my hopes and aspirations; from my plans; and from
All those romantic notions of independence, freedomthe very dream that started the whole thing, so long
and great wealth may be overtaken by long hours,ago. What I've learned over the years is that holding
hard work and the uncertainties brought by neverthe dream is one thing - continuing to believe in my
knowing what tomorrow will bring. Sometimes, weability to breathe life into it is quite another. One of my
may long for the "good ole' days" and the pay cheque,challenges has been to continue to believe in myself
paid holidays and child-care leave that went with it!when others didn't; when the evidence in my bank
And yet, truth be told, we wouldn't go back for all thestatements, for all intents and purposes, screamed
money in the world! To build something from nothing;"Give it up!" and when even my fans and supporters
create and invent on a daily basis; and to contributelooked at me with great concern on their faces. I can
how, when and why I see fit are far greater rewardschoose which of my internal voices to feed - success
that I could ever have imagined. The key is to keepor fear!
moving through and past those undeniable, moments